http://www.bandbacktogether.com/psychological-manipulation-resources/

Check, check, check.....

Here's a hypothetical situation. I'm curious about how others would perceive this:

Susie is supposedly 'best' friends with Jack. Jack becomes interested in Linda. Susie makes Jack believe that she's okay with his interest in Linda, but when Suzie gets a chance to talk to Linda thinking that Jack won't be able to find out about it, Susie proceeds to tell Linda that Jack is a snoop and is looking through her private communications, that she (Linda) shouldn't be bothered with trying to please Jack or agree with him either, that she (Linda) should give up working with/on Jack's pet project and walk away from it because she (Suzie) did, that Jack only cared about anything when it benefited him, and then the clincher, that she (Susie) didn't think that Jack and her (Linda) would fit well together.

Now the questions:
1 - What kind of a friend do you think Susie is to Jack? A good friend or not really a friend at all?
2 - Why do you think Susie would try to make Linda think lesser of Jack?

I guess "my conclusions" weren't so wrong after all. I was repeatedly told that it was "all me", that "I" was the one who was misreading:
https://www.facebook.com/Artsieladie/posts/10202769275048425

Tell people unsubstantiated 'hearsay' and they'll buy it most often, hook, line, and sinker. Present people with facts and data supporting and verifying the truth, but still they will more often than not, choose to believe and support the unsubstantiated hearsay with little thought it could be solely based on lies. It must be easier to believe lies than it is to accept, believe, and deal with the truth even when it's placed before them. Even when they've realised they've been going along with trumped up lies for the sole purpose to keep persecuting the victim, they don't have the guts to stand up and say so. So when the truth is presented smack dab in front of them, they don't say bloody boo, but yet when they were duped into believing lies, they had so much to say. But... the path of least resistance is so over crowded, while the pathway of the truth is sparsely populated. Going along with an agenda even when shown to be a wrongful one, requires no self effort. It is just so much easier to be indifferent, insensitive, uncaring, and apathetic than it is to actually stand up for what's right. Turning a blind eye, a deaf ear, or whatever must be SO honourable and definitely something one can be SO proud of themselves for! The psychopathic, power hungry, controlling zealots AND MANIPULATORS of the world know this, count on this, and thrive on this. Is it really any wonder why things are the way they are in the world? Is it any wonder why people who do things to other people that are wrong are able to get away with their wrongful acts? Because very few have the guts to stand up and speak out against what's wrong! Enablers! :/

"When people who are aware of a wrongdoing being done, but choose to do absolutely nothing about it to help put a stop to it, such people are then 'party to' and are 'part of' the wrongdoing and are therefore, "enablers" because they are enabling and clearing the path to allow the wrongdoing to continue." ~ Artsieladie #Quotes

Observation: "People watching" is rather interesting. It's so easy to tell who sucks up to who and who's kissing who's ass. ;) I may be a lot of things, but an 'ass kissing, suck up' is not one of them, and when one who is all about feeding their ego is the leader of the pack, I will gladly and deliberately seek an alternate route. :-D

I've had a FANTASTIC day!!!! So much Love!!! My heart is filled with joy, and Love, and peace. ..And THIS is the finest in life there is! :)

Wow, I finally had the opportunity to talk to someone having the same or similar amount of knowledge as Hedda, who also lives in Sweden btw. I explained some of the stuff I've been experiencing over the years and he explained to me a bit of how they certainly CAN be done and with just the small amount of info I gave him, he said quote." You are NOT imagining ANYTHING nor WHO!"

When you go through something like this, you experience many moments/times in which you begin to doubt yourself and when you deal with people who have not a clue as to just what you are experiencing, they will downplay and minimise what you are going through. But when you connect with someone who has the same or similar knowledge who knows that such profound surveillance abilities ARE possible AND when you provide them with accountings and supporting data and then they conclude the same as you have, it's a feeling I can't really describe. When what you have concluded by data and evidence collected along with logged events related and then hand this over to a person having the knowledge to and does draw the same conclusions as you have, then it actually does sink in that you're not just imagining everything as others who have no or little knowledge are trying to force you to think and/or want/expect you to believe.

He explained to me how I was able to ONLY be able to get through to Hedda IMMEDIATELY following a "Call_To_Myself" (a call from my 'own' number TO my 'own' number while online using dial-up), how access can be obtained of my landline phone conversations AND how the automated message from a non-working number can be transferred over to voicemail so that when anyone called me they were greeted with: "The number you have dialed is not in service." ..And he said that the reason likely why I didn't get any more "Calls To Myself" after I was able to finally make a phone connection was because the person doing it realised that I had figured out or would figure out just WHO was initiating the "Calls To Myself" AND having the data that I have and placing it where others could see would definitely make the person tampering very uncomfortable with such data out there and so naturally they would want to hide it from the public because they wouldn't want others knowing what they were doing.

He explained how access to my website can be obtained without the website owner even being the wiser and so that anything and everything that took place on that site, the info would then be transferred back to the person who had set such up and this info would include IP addresses, passwords, email, edits, etc.. He also told me that as soon as someone accesses a site, the person who owns the site/server knows all sorts of identifiable information which they can then use to track any user AND including their "specific device(s)". I explained to him that when I got my new computer, I made damn sure I never went to a heddate site from it. He said, yeah, but you went to your own and once you logged into your own site, a person with remote/anonymous access to it would automatically be provided with your 'new' identifiable information which would 'include' your new computer's ID.

I learned a wealth of information because we talked for over 3 hours. I've only mentioned a little here. It just feels so good to talk to someone who actually listens and then values not only what you have to say, but your reasoning, and your reasoning based on the data you were smart enough to collect and document. He said that I certainly have enough that definitely pinpoints one person and I hardly scratched the surface.

When I told him how I've been treated, told I'm a paranoid lunatic, told that I should just 'cease and desist', told and labeled as a liar, a drama queen, that I need mental help, etc. etc., he said that of course you'd get treated this way because they don't want to acknowledge that you're smarter than they are and they want to put you down to try and deter you from exposing them. If they can convince you that you're crazy then this lets them off the hook. But don't listen to them, don't let them tell you anything of the sort. You have the upper hand because you have what they are afraid of and you are what they aren't.

"When a person can still love another who has brought them pain, then such a person is a 'keeper'." ~ #ArtsieladieQuotes

"Monster"

"The Rose Amidst The Thorns"