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D.A.S.S

Domestic Abuse Support Service. This is to help people who suffer from all types of domestic abuse, we have been a good help to people and will be there to help you with your problems. Any questions or advice you may need, please contact one of the members below. We'll do our best to help you through this heartbreaking time.

What is Domestic abuse?
Domestic abuse, also known as spousal abuse, happens when one person in an intimate relationship or marriage tries to dominate and/or control the other person. An abuser doesn’t “play nice.” He or she uses fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear their partner down and gain complete power over them. He or she may threaten them, hurt them, or hurt those around them. Domestic abuse that includes physical violence is called domestic violence.

Victims of domestic abuse or domestic violence can be men or women, although women are more commonly victimized. (Note: I will use the pronoun “he” for convenience only) This abuse happens among heterosexual couples and in same-sex partnerships. Except for the gender difference, domestic abuse doesn’t discriminate. It happens within all age ranges, ethnic backgrounds, and financial levels. The abuse may occur during a relationship, while the couple is breaking up, or after the relationship has ended.

Despite what many people believe, domestic violence is not due to the abuser’s loss of control over his behavior. In fact, violence is a deliberate choice made by the abuser in order to take control over his wife or partner.

This wiki has been designed to enlighten and teach. As one who witnessed these things, first hand, I know how difficult it is to understand a few key points.

Violent Behavior is an Abuser's Choice!

Reasons we know an abuser's behaviors are not about anger and rage:

* He does not batter other individuals - the boss who does not give him time off or the gas station attendant that spills gas down the side of his car. He waits until there are no witnesses and abuses the person he says he loves.
* If you ask an abused woman, "can he stop when the phone rings or the police come to the door?" She will say "yes". Most often when the police show up, he is looking calm, cool and collected and she is the one who may look hysterical. If he were truly "out of control" he would not be able to stop himself when it is to his advantage to do so.
* The abuser very often escalates from pushing and shoving to hitting in places where the bruises and marks will not show (Stomach, kidneys, back). If he were "out of control" or "in a rage" he would not be able to direct or limit where his kicks or punches land (face, legs, arms).

There are a number of different definitions of domestic violence. In Women's Aid's view, domestic violence is physical, psychological, sexual or financial violence that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship and forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour. This can include forced marriage and so-called 'honour' crimes. Domestic violence often includes a range of abusive behaviours, not all of which are, in themselves, inherently 'violent' - hence some people prefer to use the term 'domestic abuse' rather than 'domestic violence'.

Domestic violence is very common: research shows that it affects one in four women in their lifetime. Two women a week are killed by their partners or former partners. All forms of domestic violence - psychological, financial, emotional and physical - come from the abuser's desire for power and control over an intimate partner or other family members. Domestic violence is repetitive and life-threatening, it tends to worsen over time and it destroys the lives of women and children.

Crime statistics and research show that domestic violence is gender specific - that is, it is most commonly experienced by women and perpetrated by men, particularly when there is a pattern of repeated and serious physical assaults, or when it includes rape or sexual assault or results in injury or death. Men can also experience violence from their partners (both within gay and straight relationships); however women's violence towards men is often an attempt at self defence, and is only rarely part of a consistent pattern of controlling and coercive behaviour. For this reason, we will generally refer to the abuser as 'he' and to the survivor as 'she'. See also Women and men, victims and survivors.

Domestic violence also has an enormous effect on the children in the family. Nearly three-quarters of children considered 'at risk' by Social Services are living in households where one of their parents/carers is abusing the other. A high proportion of these children are themselves being abused - either physically or sexually - by the same perpetrator. (Estimates vary between 30% to 66% depending upon the study.) See Children and domestic violence for more information.

Any woman can experience domestic violence regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, class, disability or lifestyle. Domestic violence can also take place in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender relationships. Domestic violence can also be perpetrated by other family members (for example, extended family). In some cases, older children - teenagers or young adults - are violent or abusive towards their mothers or other family members. (See 'When children become aggressive' in the Children and domestic violence section of this handbook.)

Although every situation is unique, there are common factors that link the experience of an abusive relationship. Acknowledging these factors is an important step in preventing and stopping the abuse. This list can help you to recognise if you, or someone you know, are in an abusive relationship.
Destructive criticism and verbal abuse: shouting; mocking; accusing; name calling; verbally threatening.
Pressure tactics: sulking; threatening to withhold money, disconnecting the telephone, taking the car away, taking the children away, or reporting you to welfare agencies unless you comply with his demands; threatening or attempting suicide; withholding or pressuring you to use drugs or other substances; lying to your friends and family about you; telling you that you have no choice in any decisions.
Disrespect: persistently putting you down in front of other people; not listening or responding when you talk; interrupting your telephone calls; taking money from your purse without asking; refusing to help with childcare or housework.
Breaking trust: lying to you; withholding information from you; being jealous; having other relationships; breaking promises and shared agreements.
Isolation: monitoring or blocking your telephone calls; telling you where you can and cannot go; preventing you from seeing friends and relatives; shutting you in the house.
Harassment: following you; checking up on you; not allowing you any privacy (for example, opening your mail), repeatedly checking to see who has telephoned you; embarrassing you in public; accompanying you everywhere you go.
Threats: making angry gestures; using physical size to intimidate; shouting you down; destroying your possessions; breaking things; punching walls; wielding a knife or a gun; threatening to kill or harm you and the children; threatening to kill or harm family pets; threats of suicide.
Sexual violence: using force, threats or intimidation to make you perform sexual acts; having sex with you when you don't want it; forcing you to look at pornographic material; forcing you to have sex with other people; any degrading treatment related to your sexuality or to whether you are lesbian, bisexual or heterosexual.
Physical violence: punching; slapping; hitting; biting; pinching; kicking; pulling hair out; pushing; shoving; burning; strangling.
Denial: saying the abuse doesn't happen; saying you caused the abusive behaviour; being publicly gentle and patient; crying and begging for forgiveness; saying it will never happen again.
See also Recognising domestic violence.

Is domestic violence a crime?

Domestic violence can include a number of different behaviours, and there is no single criminal offence of 'domestic violence'. Not all forms of domestic violence are illegal; some forms of emotional abuse, for example, are not defined as criminal - though these can also have a serious and lasting impact on a woman's or child's sense of well-being and autonomy.

However, many kinds of domestic violence constitute a criminal offence, including physical assault, wounding, attempting to choke, sexual assault, rape, threats to kill, harassment, stalking and putting people in fear of violence.

Who is responsible for the violence?

The abuser is always responsible for the violence, and should be held accountable. There is no excuse for domestic violence and the victim is never responsible for the abuser's behaviour.

'Blaming the victim' is something that abusers will often do to make excuses for their behaviour, and quite often they manage to convince their victims that the abuse is indeed their fault. This is part of the pattern and is in itself abusive. Blaming their behaviour on someone else, or on the relationship, their childhood, their ill health, or their alcohol or drug addiction is one way in which many abusers try to avoid personal responsibility for their behaviour.

It is important that any intervention to address domestic violence prioritises the safety of victims/survivors and holds the perpetrators accountable.

Women and men, victims and survivors

This handbook is primarily addressed to women for the following reasons:
The majority of domestic violence as defined above is perpetrated by men and experienced by women.
Women's Aid's information and support services exist to respond to the needs of women and children.
However, most of the information here would also apply equally to men who are on the receiving end of abuse, whether from a male or a female abuser.

The terms 'victim' and 'survivor' are both used, depending on the context. 'Survivor' is, however, preferred as it emphasises an active, resourceful and creative response to the abuse, in contrast to 'victim', which implies passive acceptance. If you are reading this, then you are - at least to some extent - a survivor.

References

Department of Health (2002) 'Women's Mental health: Into the Mainstream: Strategic development of mental health care for women' (London: DH)
Farmer, E. and Pollack, S. (1998) 'Substitute care for sexually abused and abusing children' (Chichester: Wiley)
Walby, Sylvia and Allen, Jonathan (2004) 'Domestic violence, sexual assault and stalking: Findings from the British Crime Survey' (London: Home Office Research, Development and Statistics Directorate)

What is Domestic Abuse?

Domestic abuse is the mental, physical, sexual or financial abuse of the female partner by the male partner with whom they have or have had a relationship.

Domestic abuse is not only about physical abuse. Men can also use sexual, emotional, mental and financial abuse to hurt and control women. For example, constantly criticising you, telling you you’re stupid, keeping you deliberately short of money. It is important these are not overlooked since for some women these forms of abuse can be equally, if not more, severe.

Often abuse happens over a long period of time and can become worse as time goes on. You are not to blame for domestic abuse against you. Domestic abuse is an inappropriate use of power and exertion of control and the abuser is to blame.

Acts of domestic abuse can also be committed either by women towards men, or in single sex relationships. Social Work Services, however, focuses its policy on abuse committed by men towards women, as this is the most common form of abuse.

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Our Commitment

Glasgow City Council Social Work Services is committed to:

supporting and developing services for women and their children experiencing domestic abuse to support women and to assist them to feel safe
ensuring that social work staff do not make judgements about women experiencing domestic abuse
recognising that women experiencing abuse come from all social classes, ethnic groups, occupations and economic groups
recognising the impact domestic abuse has on children and young people and supporting them to express their views
ensuring women are informed of action we take on their behalf and what happens as a result
ensuring confidentiality wherever possible
linking up with other Council Services and other organisations to make sure that women experiencing domestic abuse can obtain all the services they need as easily as possible

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What Social Work Services can offer

If you are experiencing domestic abuse, you may need help while still in an abusive relationship, while you are planning to leave or once you have left. We can offer you the chance to talk about your situation and can give information on possible options along with information and advice on:

finance and welfare benefits
support services for children and young people
local counselling services and projects
housing
community support services
We will put you in touch with other Council Services and other agencies who can provide help.

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What to expect

We will listen and respect the views of women experiencing domestic abuse. You are the best person to decide what is right for you. You have the right to be treated with respect at all times and you will be seen by a woman worker if you request it. You may bring someone with you to the appointment if you wish. We provide a confidential service and your rights will be explained when you first come along to see us.

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How you can contact Social Work Services

Your local social work office operates an appointment system. You can telephone or call into your local office to arrange a suitable time. Our reception staff will ask for some basic information and give you an appointment. If it is an emergency you will be seen on the same day.

Local social work offices are open:
Monday-Thursday 8.45am to 4.45pm
Friday 8.45am to 3.55pm

Out with these hours you can contact our Emergency Service on freephone 0800 811505

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If you have children

Domestic abuse has an impact on children and their views have to be considered. We will give what support we can to help you and your children. We recognise that protecting you is often the best way to protect your children.

Do you require interpreting or signing services at your interview?

If you need to communicate in a language other than English we can arrange an interpreter.

If you arrive at an area office, the member of staff you see can arrange telephone interpreting in Urdu, Punjabi or Chinese. We can then deal with your issue via telephone interpreting or make an appointment when an interpreter can attend in person. If you require interpreting in any other language, an appointment will be made when an interpreter can be present.

If you have a hearing impairment and would like an interpreter to attend your appointment please let us know and we will make the necessary arrangements.

Arranging interpreters may mean you have to wait a bit longer for an appointment.

If you are physically disabled

Home visits can be arranged for disabled women who are unable to get to their local office. If you don’t want to be visited at home another suitable venue can be found.

If you wish, (if no one is on Elfpack at the moment) you can email us at d.a.s.s@live.com

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Staff members:

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2009-07-16 [footer]: why dont you just stop being a big baby, just because you cant be the boss

2009-07-16 [gypsy_soul]: just take his banner and his name off of here and we will both leave you alone

2009-07-16 [Neurotic Obsession]: I just want my art and work off the damn page when I'm NOT giving permission for it's use.

2009-07-16 [footer]: once i have a new banner i will i promise

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]: Hey peeps. I'm joining.....

2009-07-16 [footer]: vampire girl will add you, there is also elfpack police

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]: ...first banner (soldier told me to put it here)

2009-07-16 [footer]: lol no need to tell them lol, im the boss on here

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]: lol....ok.

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]:

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]: HAHAHAHAHAHA! It finally worked! I win...ten points.

2009-07-16 [footer]: yes, the password to the wiki is qwerty to add the banner on

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]: ok. cool. thank you

2009-07-16 [Dark_ Possesion]: where do i add it?

2009-07-17 [footer]: you add it at the top of the page, in the middle

2009-07-17 [Dark_ Possesion]: ok. thank you for putting that up. i will remember that.

2009-07-17 [footer]: your welcome, do you want to be an elfpack police officer then

2009-07-17 [Dark_ Possesion]: um.....sure. what do i have to do?

2009-07-18 [ShanelleRenee]: idk how to join..

2009-07-18 [footer]: simply click edit darlin

2009-07-18 [ShanelleRenee]: oh..lol it was blocked..at first i think??

2009-07-18 [footer]: yes i took the passwords off lol

2009-07-18 [ShanelleRenee]: lol. i see that.

2009-07-19 [Boomnesss]: = )

2009-07-19 [ShanelleRenee]: =\

2009-07-20 [lulu dinobot]: you all know men can be abused to....i know this as beat my bf up when he doesnt do as he's told! sometimes ya jus gotta SLAP! lol im jokin i love my bf very much!!

2009-07-20 [footer]: i have also got other wikis, take a look

2009-07-20 [lulu dinobot]: S-L-A-P!...sometimes you gotta keep them in line like =]

2009-07-20 [footer]: true, but there is other ways instead of violence

2009-07-20 [lulu dinobot]: lol lies =]...If Alan dont listen S-L-A-P..P-U-N-C-H..lmao im jokin btw...he wouls tank me :)

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: im quitting on this too

2009-07-20 [lulu dinobot]: why ya quitin?

2009-07-20 [footer]: because she hates me

2009-07-20 [lulu dinobot]: he thinks everyone hates him!

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: ik

2009-07-20 [lulu dinobot]: **sigh ...[footer] you're meant to be changin! leave the poor girl alone!! what's he doin now?

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: abuse doesn't only come in the form of physical abuse. just a fact.

2009-07-20 [Tis gone but never gone]: hey hey wot the hell is going on ?????????

2009-07-20 [footer]: i know, its verbal, physical, imotional, etc.

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: manipulation.

2009-07-20 [Tis gone but never gone]: wot???

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: Also financial. Most people forget about financial abuse

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: Ah yes of course.

2009-07-20 [Tis gone but never gone]: i have know idea wot anyone is going on about?

2009-07-20 [footer]: just trying to get at me, im ignoring them

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: No, just pointing out facts.

2009-07-20 [Tis gone but never gone]: everyone just chill!!!

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: I'm always chilled.

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: It's true, I keep him in the deepfreeze at night^^

2009-07-20 [Tis gone but never gone]: good ^^

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: She truely does!

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: XD HA!

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: I don't mind though :(

2009-07-20 [Tis gone but never gone]: ok

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: this was probably all my fault.

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: It isn't.

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: yes it was
:(

2009-07-20 [footer]: whatever, im saying bye to all of you,ive had enough of my life, ive treated people like shit

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: :O
he hates me =\

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: ok.

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: whatever matthew this is what you want then leave elfpack
okayy..im not taking this shit anymore..bye.

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: It isn't your fault, he does this everytime he doesn't get what he wants.

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: *Pancakes to celebrate*

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: he wanted me!!!!!
and NUDE pictures of ME!!!!
and i told him FUCK NO!
i supposedly wouldnt give him a chance to change and i did .. months ago!!! even on his old elfpack that he got banned on! im done with the bullshit!

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: He asked a 14 year old to give him nude pics. So.. *nods* He's a perv.

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: i know he is!
:(
*cries*

2009-07-20 [Ihsahn]: You did the right thing lass, you should never show nude pics out of pity. or well, being underage..

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: *hugs* Just block him and hope he gets banned soon.

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: i wouldnt ever put nude pics out on the internet..or through the cell phones..the farthest i would go is in my bikini or bikini top and shorts..cuz u kno its summer and i hang out with my friends and all that in the summer.

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: i reported him like 2 hours ago

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: I reported him too, the crap he says about me is just hilarious XD

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: what does he say about u

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: go look in my guestbook see all the shit he says in there!

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: I'm sexist, racist, and that I'm a chick XD

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: omg wow i should kill duh bitch ass loserface XD

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: Ohhh You has pretty hair! *Touch hair*

But yeah, I can see his threats. Kind of funny that he would abuse people like that when he's setting up all these wiki's.

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: HAH!

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: ...Damn Oo

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: yeahh
did u read my guestbook!

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: Yup. You know.. I would love to see things from his point of view.. but I just can't seem to get my head that far up my ass :(

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: lol im sorry :(

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: Shame, I know :P

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: :O im tired thoo >.<

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: Go to bed^^

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: nuuu i dun wana

2009-07-20 [Neurotic Obsession]: :O Why forcome?

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: :O ahh

2009-07-20 [footer]: this wiki is not for that kind of talk, stop talking on this wiki otherwise you will be reported, again

2009-07-20 [ShanelleRenee]: HAH!
nice :D

2009-07-21 [footer]: i have now reported [neurcotic obsession] and [xoxshayxox]

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: why did your report me?

2009-07-21 [footer]: because you are spamming my wiki with that he/she person.... thing

2009-07-21 [Ihsahn]: S.I.P. a new wiki that is kind of like this, but focuses on predators, this wiki kinda of inspired it. :)

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: yeah i know
[Ihsahn] i need you to PM me really quick.

2009-07-21 [Ihsahn]: You'd have to PM as I really don't pm anyone.

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: :( i need someone to talk to :(

2009-07-21 [Neurotic Obsession]: PM me, I'm here for you.

2009-07-21 [footer]: oyy this is my wiki fuck off, your a confused girl who thinks your A BOY and tells everyone you are male, this is my wiki so unless your gonna join it then fuck off

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: lol here have ya all seen the message..ontop of [footer]'s house??...mega lolz...oh and [Neurotic Obsession]..mega lolz at the comment above mine ...I L Y [Neurotic Obsession] lol

2009-07-21 [footer]: let me guess, your at it again [lulu dinobot]

you cant decide wether your gonna be a silly bitch or a nice person can you

drop dead

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: actually no i cant..and ive seen things you've been writing to people..i am a nice person but not to

PERVERTS

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: oi [footer] has had a lot of difficult things to deal with in his life so lay of

2009-07-21 [footer]:

i have fucking hormone problems witch ive tolde you more than once you nasty stupid little cow

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: fuck right off! dont get involved little girl!! you have no clue!! alot to deal with, you have no idea what ive been through so back right off!!

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]:

NO YOU NEVER YOU FUCKIN RAPIST WAITIN TO HAPPEN!!!

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]:

and go tell the guards there havin nothing to do with it lol

2009-07-21 [footer]: that is taking it one step to far, you see what i mean, you are un trust worthy

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: who u calling a little gurl u stupied hoe i aint little im a bigger person then will ever be. ive had more to deal wiv then u back the fuck OFF

2009-07-21 [footer]: read my life in a bottle 2 then try that sentence again bitch

2009-07-21 [footer]: ive been in care for 14 years ive been beat up my carers all that time, ive been sexuelly abused twice

i have been beat up by my family twice, close to death alot of times.

so retrack that sentance lulu dinobot instead of thinking your fucking the only one, you are so fucking selfish

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: [footer] im here if u need to talk

2009-07-21 [footer]: i

fucking

wonna

kill</h3

her

Missing: </h3>

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: babe calm the fuck down

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: woo i almost care, my heart truly bleeds, but of course it would ..or i'd die! im not careless [Sexy LULU] i just..well like nice unperverted people..he truely is a creep!! you aint seen the things he said to me, as for the little girl comment sorry but you have no right to become involved!! as for you [footer]..murder..tut tut..would ruin that "good guy"..*hermmmmm* image of yours would it not?..

truely i wish i had never replied to you when you messaged me!! now please kids...

bon voyage!

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: [footer] please just leave it and calm down as for [lulu dinobot] He as got hormonal probs and it doesnt help when other people start it aint good for him.

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: hormonal problems?..tablets sort that out, my little sister has hormonal problems and she's not a jerk!!

Im leavin it as of now! ..i wish to have nothing to do with him..

2009-07-21 [footer]: i have tryed all medications and they dont work, it makes me do bad things, its like another person controlling my life, i hate it, please just stop being a bitch [lulu dinobot] or are you showing your true colours now

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: matt please leave it for me

2009-07-21 [footer]: lou as much as i love you i cant, she has pissed me off from day 1, she is fattest, proberbly racist, definetly sexist, i hate people like that and i think you know why

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: babe please i no people piss u off alot but i think she understands now.

2009-07-21 [footer]: she doesnt, i try to change and she said she will help me when all she did was make me worse

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: yea well im here now babe. xx

2009-07-21 [footer]: but what can you do, nothing like everyone else

2009-07-21 [Sexy LULU]: dont say that im always here for u and u no to leave me a message if im not on

2009-07-21 [footer]: yeah but thats it, you cant herlp me any other way

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: lol..sigh.."she is fattest, proberbly racist, definetly sexist, i hate people like that and i think you know why"
im not fattest i have fat friends, im not raciest..my ex bf was black and currently im datin a mixed race guy, im not sexist i love men (: tehehe ..and i hate you too....bonziiii

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: WOH OKAY MATTHEW [lulu dinobot] IS NOT FUCKING FAT SO SHUT YUR FUCKING MOUTH..SHE IS PERFECTLY FINE AND IF YOUR GOING TO SAY THAT KINDA SHIT ABOUT HER I WILL FUCKING KILL MYSELF..SHE IS NOT RACIST AND IF YOUR CALLIN HER FAT...LOOK AT ME IM THE FATTEST MOTHER FUCKER ON THIS GOD DAMN FUCKING PLANET AND I AM A BITCH I KNOW..THANK YOU AND YOUR TELLING ANOTHER GIRL YOU LOVE HER HAH! PATHETIC..AND YOU WAS TRYING TO GET WITH ME TOO! FUCK YOU OKAYY FUCK YOU

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: [ShanelleRenee]...you are AWESOME!! thanks (: ha ha he said i love you to me too**shakes head** such a loser likee *high 5*[ShanelleRenee]

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: *high five* [lulu dinobot] hehe and thanks..:)

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: *happy dances* his life is such a travisty

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: rofl
wow :D

2009-07-21 [footer]: i have reported both of you for spamming this wiki

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: how did i spam your wiki?

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: yeah this isnt spamming!!! hes fuckin stupid!! lol spammin is sooo different!! and [footer] are you not dead yet!

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: rofl
wow
no he keeps messaging me and shit

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: i saw...lol loser face!

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: wow >.<

2009-07-21 [lulu dinobot]: O.o why does he say he's gonna kill himself and then lie...attention seeker!!

2009-07-21 [ShanelleRenee]: i know right and he called me fat and ugly..he called me racist..he said he wants to kill me and kill himself.

2009-07-22 [lulu dinobot]: lol why wont he kill himself...my drinkin would have been ace if i came back and it said "this member is now dead" lol i l y [ShanelleRenee]

btw everyone look how pathetic he is on his home page lol the pics xx

2009-07-22 [ShanelleRenee]: :D hehe
ily2 [lulu dinobot] xxx

2009-07-22 [lulu dinobot]: yeeeaaahhh boooyyyyyy (:

2009-07-22 [ShanelleRenee]: rofl
MUAHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
XD WOE!

2009-07-23 [lulu dinobot]: (:

2009-07-23 [ShanelleRenee]: you kno wat i gots lots of haters now
but all dem can pog mo thone cuz i dont giva flyin fuck yo!

2009-07-23 [lulu dinobot]: yeah boyyy lol fuck them ...i still love youuu lol (:

2009-07-23 [ShanelleRenee]: lol
do you know what pog mo thone means?

2009-07-23 [lulu dinobot]: nope lmao xx

2009-07-23 [ShanelleRenee]: means kiss my ass in irish(gaelic)

2009-07-24 [lulu dinobot]: ohhh om not itish

2009-07-24 [ShanelleRenee]: irish*

2009-07-24 [lulu dinobot]: yeah lol

im not...that im from Northern ireland

2009-07-24 [ShanelleRenee]: ohh okayy.

2009-07-24 [lulu dinobot]: ha ha its ok (:

2009-07-31 [//*Ghost*//]: hey jut wondering about this but do you guys actually help people who go through domestic abuse or do you just insult [footer] and try to get him to kill himself and talk about random stuff??

2009-07-31 [ShanelleRenee]: i talk about random stuff..

2009-07-31 [//*Ghost*//]: ahhh ok.....

2009-07-31 [ShanelleRenee]: yepp

2009-07-31 [ShanelleRenee]: lalalal
*BATMAN*

2009-09-10 [kyraawr]: im not gonna lie, this wiki sucks. and you guys are talking about pointless shit, when there are actual people in the world you could be helping.

and furthermore, why, oh why must you keep inviting me to all these wiki's. they're so many & its difficult as all fuckkkk to manage while on a cellular device!

T_T

2009-09-10 [lulu dinobot]: ? who invited you? and this wiki aint been used in ages lol :)

2009-09-11 [skullhead]: ok... so this is D ass? <img:br2N-gif.gif>

<img:BR-GIF.gif> lol... Im sorry

2009-09-15 [lulu dinobot]: lol good one :|..... *clear throat*

2010-01-21 [footer]: hay everyone im back and have changed for the better

2010-01-23 [ShanelleRenee]: wb

2010-01-24 [lulu dinobot]: Pfffft! We'll make that judgment but Welcome Back *waves banner*

2010-01-24 [//*Ghost*//]: how is this a place where people go for abuse support if all yall do is diss eachother and talk about stupid shit????

2010-01-24 [footer]: [lulu dinobot] is not suppost to be on here and i have reported her, she has been told before by the guards not to go on my wikis otherwise she will be banned, as its destroying the nature of the wiki

2010-01-24 [//*Ghost*//]: oh.....

2010-01-24 [footer]: you have successfully been promoted to team leader [//*Ghost*//]

2010-01-24 [//*Ghost*//]: um thanks but why

2010-01-24 [footer]: because you are good to talk to, and i get on with you best on here, your one of a kind lol

2010-01-24 [//*Ghost*//]: thanks lol

2010-01-24 [footer]: its ok

2010-01-26 [footer]: everyone, our email is d.a.s.s@live.com
if you dont know the password then messege me, only the staff who are on here can have the password

2010-01-27 [lulu dinobot]: Woooo WOooo Wooo I was told by noone...And you have no grounds on reporting as i said nothing offensive or harrassed anyone!

2010-01-27 [footer]: yes i do, i still have the messeges

2010-01-27 [lulu dinobot]: Yes but how long ago was that? Its not recent...cause I aint been on this in months...and if i was sorry...

2010-01-27 [footer]: it doesnt matter now, my mrs aint to happy mind? she kicked off when i showed her the messeges from you, [Ihsahn] said, anymore messeges from [lulu dinobot] that are in any way offencive will result in her being banned, or summit like that, personally i dont want you banned, when your in a good mood your nice

2010-01-27 [lulu dinobot]: I wont be banned for 1 its not recent. Lol Im normally in a good mood lol :D

2010-01-27 [footer]: ok, ill give you a chance, pick witch wikis you want to be a part of and ill let you

2010-01-27 [lulu dinobot]: I dont want to be in any wiki per say. lol I just like seein whats happenin :D

2010-01-27 [footer]: lol, as long as you dont spam any

2010-01-27 [lulu dinobot]: Ive never spammed

2010-01-27 [footer]: thats what you got told off for once, hold on a min ill try find them

2010-01-28 [//*Ghost*//]: wow...........no comment

2010-01-28 [footer]: [//*Ghost*//] do you remember how offencive she was

2010-01-28 [lulu dinobot]: I wasnt offensive and it was months ago like in the summer Jeezzzzzzusss its now 2010 like. Plus i wasnt spamming. do you even know what spamming is?
The definition of spamming is
Spam is flooding the Internet with many copies of the same message, in an attempt to force the message on people who would not otherwise choose to receive it. Most spam is commercial advertising, often for dubious products, get-rich-quick schemes, or quasi-legal services. Spam costs the sender very little to send -- most of the costs are paid for by the recipient or the carriers rather than by the sender.

There are two main types of spam, and they have different effects on Internet users. Cancellable Usenet spam is a single message sent to 20 or more Usenet newsgroups. (Through long experience, Usenet users have found that any message posted to so many newsgroups is often not relevant to most or all of them.) Usenet spam is aimed at "lurkers", people who read newsgroups but rarely or never post and give their address away. Usenet spam robs users of the utility of the newsgroups by overwhelming them with a barrage of advertising or other irrelevant posts. Furthermore, Usenet spam subverts the ability of system administrators and owners to manage the topics they accept on their systems.

Email spam targets individual users with direct mail messages. Email spam lists are often created by scanning Usenet postings, stealing Internet mailing lists, or searching the Web for addresses. Email spams typically cost users money out-of-pocket to receive. Many people - anyone with measured phone service - read or receive their mail while the meter is running, so to speak. Spam costs them additional money. On top of that, it costs money for ISPs and online services to transmit spam, and these costs are transmitted directly to subscribers.

One particularly nasty variant of email spam is sending spam to mailing lists (public or private email discussion forums.) Because many mailing lists limit activity to their subscribers, spammers will use automated tools to subscribe to as many mailing lists as possible, so that they can grab the lists of addresses, or use the mailing list as a direct target for their attacks.

I wasnt doin any of that!

2010-01-28 [//*Ghost*//]: i dont remember shit it was to long ago...but i remember us talking bout random shit but that bout all i remember. sorry and she is right not tryna chose sides but im not stupid and niether is she

2010-02-28 [lulu dinobot]: Thanks ;D

2010-03-01 [//*Ghost*//]: anytime =D

2010-03-01 [lulu dinobot]: How are you anyway [//*Ghost*//]

2010-03-01 [//*Ghost*//]: im tryna get things straight before i go insane what bout you?

2010-03-02 [lulu dinobot]: Im tryin to get drugs before i go insane :P haha

2010-03-02 [//*Ghost*//]: haha i already got some =p

2010-09-16 [lulu dinobot]: Im back peeps :D

2010-09-19 [//*Ghost*//]: heyyy im back too

2010-10-04 [lulu dinobot]: yay :D we can be back together lol

2010-10-08 [//*Ghost*//]: lol x3 yay =] so how is everyone?

2010-10-21 [lulu dinobot]: AWESOME!!

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