Choose to say just what you feel For a chance again tomorrow may steal And only regrets would then remain, Unrequited with denial to gain A chance once more to wipe away The painful regret from failing to say What's on your mind, what's in your heart, What resides in your truest part. Anger discolours, fear distorts, Assumptions left open leave all sorts Of warped perceptions to linger, to stay, While the truth would have cast away All doubt, all anger, all fear, With nothing assumed but perfectly clear. It is best to say just what we feel, To leave no regrets without repeal. |
If we put a little bit of Christmas Spirit in each and every day, What a difference this would make in each and every way. If we thought and felt more with a Christmas Spirit mind, We would be a lot more caring and so much more be kind. The magic in Christmas is within the love, And all of its wonderment it is made of. Love is about caring, kindness, giving, Compassion, thoughtfulness Love maintains no boundaries, of mistakes, keeps no track, Love is healing, moving forward, without looking back. Love can move mountains, walls tear down, Mend shattered hearts, make a smile from a frown. Love adds warmth where ice couldn't melt. Love rekindles hope where hopelessness was felt. Love connects, bonds, unites in its name, Wipes away guilt and casts away blame. So, to keep the Christmas Spirit, the magic of the season, Hold onto the love, and nurture for no reason. |
They are not born and they are not made... They create themselves through conquering adversity, trial and error and extreme pain and suffering. They conquer fear and find a way to speak their truth even when they are afraid. In doing so they shine light for others who are lost and feeling alone, and in return their inner light ignites with renewed purpose. A purpose greater than they ever could have imagined. |
I do "photo 'enhancement' editing". This photo was taken by a friend, Rich Patt. It's of his dog, Buddie.
I removed the background and VERY carefully around Buddie and so I would save the "fur" outline as much as possible. Preserving the "fur" outline is very important and I will explain why a bit farther in this writing.
But it's not a process that you can rush through IF you want to preserve the furry outline. It's very time consuming and it requires a lot of patience, which many digital artists aren't all that willing to put into some-
thing like this. They think if something takes them a couple of hours, this is a lot of time. Well, a couple/few hours is nothing compared to the amount of time I've put into a piece of work. I have pieces of work that
have taken me days, weeks, even months to complete.
After erasing the background around Buddie, I then had to "replace" some of the "fur ends" in his outline.
Then I removed the "jpg-ness" in Buddie's image, which is basically smoothing out the pixels, because JPGs are harsh. JPGs also blend adjacent pixels. PNGs preserve an image as is almost if not entirely 100%. This
is another process that takes a considerable amount of time.
Since I didn't want to leave the chain collar on Buddie, I removed it. This process again, took a lot of time. Then I worked with contrast, and other image tools until I was happy with Buddie's appearance. Then I
added framing, texts, his name and in the first version, a plain black background. In the second version, I added a different background photo. It is in the second version especially where it's so important for the
"furry outline" to be preserved. Saving the furry outline makes all the difference between whether Buddie would look like he was part of the background image or look like he was "pasted in". The latter being what
you don't want.
Version #1:
Version #2:
The photo I used for the new background in version #2 is a photo my daughter took at the college campus. Here's the original:
...And what made this all so worthwhile doing was when Rich received it and he was so happy with it. The act of doing something just for the sheer intent to do something special for someone, to make them happy,
is worth EVERYTHING. On the other hand, when you do something special for someone to make them happy and they tell you they didn't appreciate it all that much, well, THIS is heartless and cruel I think because
such shatters your heart into a billion pieces. Only one person has ever been this cruel and he knows who he is. But... there is never anything possibly wrong in giving. If the receiver is ungrateful and hurtful, the
wrong lies with the receiver, NOT the giver. ..And as much as this same person would like to destroy me and my integrity, the truth is in fact, he is destroying his own. I gave to him in many ways and from my heart.
All he has ever done in return is take and steal from me, use and abuse me. So who exactly is he destroying?
#Poetry #Quotes #PoeticQuotes
When blessed with gifts, We are blessed to share, To touch hearts and souls To show we care, For a gift unshared Is a gift that's wasted, It's sweetness unknown Til others have tasted. |
#Poetry
When in others goodness we see, We can then know the same can be, Within ourselves if we so choose To allow the good, the bad to lose, For what in others we've recognised, We've then unveiled, undisguised, A true reflection of both dark and light, What is wrong and what's right is right. We see in others our own reflection, Which then affects our own projection. |
Yes, Merry "Christ"mas! I think if people are going to celebrate Christmas, partake in all it entails, the festivities, the gift exchanging, etc., then they should at the very least believe in "why" we have and celebrate Christmas. If you don't believe, then IMO, you shouldn't celebrate a day that you don't believe in why while those of us do, do. It's hypocrisy! |
Elfpack's "start page" (Mainstuff) has gone down in its Google Pagerank. It was at 2 but now it is down to 1. :(
The Facebook "like" button has changed I see. It's a bit more noticeable than the previous one. Perhaps, so people will be more inclined to use it? I'd use it a LOT more, if:
- Things were worked out between Hedda and myself amicably and mutually beneficial, so...
- My privacy wasn't being invaded.
- My name wasn't being slandered all across the Web.
- My thousands of pieces of written and art work wasn't being kept from me and thus, being stolen.
- I was given a 'written' guarantee that I wouldn't yet again, be used as scapegoat as I'm being used now, for which I then get punished for the wrongdoings of others and/or punished because of an endearing and complimentary comment made towards me in my website's guestbook from a very dear and close, male friend of mine.
Of course, none of this will be admitted because no one involved is a big enough person to stand up and say so.
When someone uses your generous and giving nature and then they choose to abuse you besides, this is not conducive for that generous person to do anything more supportive in the future for the user and abuser nor would one even want to. One can turn things around if they are willing to acknowledge their mistakes, but one who is guilty of wrongdoing can't expect exoneration and a chance to start over if they aren't willing to acknowledge what brought them to the place they are at in the first place. Mistakes are made by everyone, myself included. They are learning tools but one can't learn from mistakes made unless the mistakes are acknowledged first.
This has been a very long haul, a very long drawn out process/situat
I'm a firm believer that wrongs can be fixed and mistakes can be rectified, but the longer the wrongs are left unfixed and the mistakes unrectified, and measures taken to hamper this process, the more devastating the revelation of the truth will be. Mistakes can't be rectified or fixed however, IF one of the parties involved isn't willing to take part in a reconciliation and if a party isn't willing to, then the fault for the continuing situation being left unresolved lies completely with the unwilling party. Since Hedda is unwilling, then this situation remaining as is, is HIS fault and HIS fault alone, regardless of what he does and or says.
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My friend Adam Jones is such a corker! ROFLMAO
How many times have you heard someone say, "I love so and so 'because'..."? But in my opinion, love is not about "becauses". Love needs NO "because". If love needed "becauses", then when or if the "because" disappears, then so would love? Hence...
"Love without 'becauses' and you will love truly." ~ Artsieladie #Quotes
Umm... what kind of deadline date is this?